Jeremy Kauffman When one of my children was 2,he dropped carrot on the floor and refused itup_ He was told he would not be allowed to do anything fun or have any privileges until he picked up the carrot. He refused for hours: He cried and screamed: He even napped, woke up, and continued to refuse. His commitment was impressive. We held fast: Until he picked up the carrot; he would receive nothing other than water and basic food to live. After over hours, he picked up the carrot and logized. It”s the longest he’s fought us to this Disobedience is a choice of parents: You get the behavior that you tolerate. pick apok day: