Hey! Just wanna be upfront because /’ve wasted enough time on men already: Do you have a full- time job? A reliable car? Do you live alone? Are you over your ex and will not mention her name in front of me? Do you smoke? Do you want kids? Are you okay with paying on the first date? If this all checks out we can continue this conversation_ Today 6.44 AM Maybe you shouldn’t start with that opener: Maybe try; “Hi, Im a giant red fllag”